Throwback Joint: Rahsaan Patterson

Hey Readers! Today's Throwback Joint comes from my favorite male vocalist RAHSAAN PATTERSON. Sit back, think of your special someone or the one you'd like to be your special someone and enjoy.

For Colored Girls...The Movie

The hit Stage play and book For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When The Rainbow Is Enuf is now a movie written and directed by Tyler Perry. When the news was first announced that Tyler Perry was to be in charge of this poetic classic, black women everywhere became enraged; already judging the film before it had began production. First they were upset that a man would tell the stories of women of color,second the man was Tyler Perry; I guess maybe they feared he would cast himself as Madea in one of the roles? I'm only guessing.

Nevertheless, everyone whether glad, sad or mad that Tyler is directing,is sitting on edge waiting to see the movie. Originally slated to open in theaters January 2011, the date has now moved to November 5th of this year.
With an all star cast line up, I'm praying this will be an Oscar Award winning movie.




CAST:
Janet Jackson- Joanna
Anika Noni Rose-Yasmine
Tessa Thompson- Nyla
Kerry Washington- Kelly
Kimberly Elise- Crystal
Phylicia Rashad- Gilda
Thandie Newton- Tangie
Loretta Devine- Juanita

The movie also stars Whoopi Goldberg and Isaiah Mustafa (The Old Spice Guy).

VMA AWARDS 2010

So last night was the 2010 MTV Video Music Awards which was hosted by Chelsea Handler who's known for her E! Television show Chelsea Lately. It was the first time in it's history the VMA's were hosted by a woman.Chelsea made her entrance coming out of the ceiling dressed as Lady GaGa. Chelsea had some funny antics all night,but this one was not only hilarious, but the read of them all. She auto tuned her voice when talking with Jason Derulo and Ke$ha:

2010 MTV Video Music Awards - More VMA Video

another highlight and sort of controversial moment was Taylor Swift's performance. Her song dedicated to Kanye West in my opinion was brilliant.She took the words from her diary and made it into a song. Everyone thought she was going to come out and blast Kanye, but she actually came from a mature perspective and moreso understanding.In the song she says "32 and still growing up, who you are is not what you did" may sound like a read, but it's the truth and I believe she came from a real and true place. You tell me what you think.

2010 MTV Video Music Awards - More VMA Video

MTV allowed Kanye to comeback and had him close out the show. His song to me was HOT! I LOVED it. It's a classic Kanye don't give a damn! type of song. The song is titled Runaway.The lyrics are The READ!!

2010 MTV Video Music Awards - More VMA Video

Video of the Year
Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Best Male Video
Eminem - Not Afraid

Best Female video
Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Best New Artist
Justin Bieber -f/Ludacris Baby

Best Hip Hop Video
Eminem - Not Afraid

Best Pop Video
Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Best Dance Video
Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Best Rock Video
30 Seconds To Mars- Kings and Queens

Best Collaboration
Lady Gaga feat. Beyoncé - Telephone

Best choreography

Lady Gaga - Bad Romance

Best Editing

Lady Gaga -Bad Romance

Best Art Direction
Florence + the Machine -Dog Days Are Over

Best Direction
Lady Gaga -Bad Romance

Best Cinematography
J-Z and Alicia Keyes- Empire State of Mind

Best Special Effects
Muse -Uprising

Breakthrough Video

The Black Keys - Tighten Up

Landlord Kills Tenant For Unpaid Rent!

Hey there Readers! well, while surfing the web and skimming stories, I came across this one and all I have to say is WOW! If you are a resident in Brooklyn,NY PLEASE PAY YOUR RENT! read the story below and you'll see why.





News One for Black America reported:

Patricia Wilson was in a longstanding feud with her landlord, police said.

A Brooklyn landlord has been charged with murdering her tenant – bringing a longstanding feud to a brutal end, police said.

Jacqueline Wesley-Rosa, 49, was arrested at the 75th Precinct stationhouse after detectives questioned her at length about the shooting death of Patricia Wilson, 55, police said Thursday.

Wilson was shot in the chest early Wednesday and collapsed on the sidewalk outside the East New York apartment she rented from Wesley-Rosa.


Wilson and Wesley-Rosa, who also lived in the four-family home on Linwood St., had previously clashed over rent and trash disposal, according to Wilson’s family and neighbors.

A Healthy Relationship

Hey readers, I came across this story and I thought I'd share it. Everyone talks about healthy relationships as far as mates, spouses and Life Partners, but what about friendships? Friendships are equally as important and we all need healthy friendships. We also need to know how to be good friends because if you can't be a good friend, then you can not be a good mate. So check this out and tell me what you think.







6 Signs you're in a healthy relationship.
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by Brett Blumenthal - Sheer Balance, on Tue Mar 9, 2010 6:18am PST388 CommentsPost a CommentRead More from This Author »Report Abuse.. Not long ago, I published an article about six qualities to admire in others, and the response was extraordinary. I prefaced the article by saying that the six I mentioned were by far not an exhaustive list, but included those traits that seemed especially hard to find. In reading all of the comments, however, I was inspired to write a follow-up list that covers some of the other qualities that I, as well as others, believe to be important when looking for friendships and relationships with others.
Our relationships are vital to our mental well-being. However, toxic relationships can really do a number on our happiness and outlook on life. As a result, it is important to look for individuals who possess qualities that allow for healthy relationships. Although, once again, not an exhaustive list, the qualities listed below are those that should be at the very heart of a healthy relationship. And, just as you would expect your friend, family member or loved one to display these qualities, it is just as important to reciprocate.

1.Loyalty: Whether it's in friendships or in family, loyalty is truly important to maintain a healthy relationship. All of us are guilty, at one time or another, of making mistakes, having ups and downs, and even displaying some behavior that we may not always be proud of. When we find friends or loved ones who can forgive us and stand by us…even during our worst moments…we should be especially grateful. That said, loyalty should never be taken for granted and we should always be deeply appreciative when it comes our way.

2.Respect: I once knew an individual who was very opinionated about political topics. She would talk down to people who disagreed with her and would be very disrespectful. Not only did she make people feel stomped on, but she left many disinterested in friendship. Treating others with kindness and the respect they deserve is important in gaining the respect that WE desire. It never feels good to be taken for granted, judged or used and it doesn’t feel good to be talked down to or treated rudely or inappropriately. There will be times that we may not always have full agreement with our friends or loved ones, but respecting them along the way is a must.

3.Unconditionally There: There is nothing worse than having someone always resurface in your life when they are in need, are looking for something or need a favor. In a culture of “you scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours,” it is somewhat rare to find those “who just scratch your back,” period. Finding individuals who want you in their lives just because…and not because they want something in return is refreshing and worth holding on to. Those who are generous of heart are to be treasured!

4.Trustworthy: I once worked with a woman who, within my first week on the job, felt the need to tell me all of the intimate details of the various extra-marital affairs that had occurred with the management of the firm. She was supposedly friends with these people and I have no doubt, was told this information in the most strictest of confidences. How she felt it was appropriate to divulge this information to a new-hire like me, I still have no idea. But, it was her nature to gossip about everyone and everything. If you share something in confidence, you should be able to trust that the information will remain that way.

5.A Genuine Sounding Board: Taking a genuine interest in what others have to say and really listening to someone is important in developing solid relationships. Letting go of the “me, me, me” and focusing on the other person not only makes the other person feel valued and appreciated, but they feel that they can really talk to someone who cares. Those who take the time to really listen to our thoughts and feelings, and then help us work through difficult times and situations, share our lives at a much deeper level than those who don’t. These are individuals worth hanging on to.

6.Dependability: I had a friend who frequently would RSVP to small gatherings and then would never show. They never explained…never brought it up…and never apologized. Although this example is somewhat trivial, it still makes the point. Obviously there are times when things come up that prevent individuals from following through on what they promise, but if a friend, co-worker or family member perpetually drops the ball, they may be sending you a message. If a friend says they are going to do something or be somewhere, you should be able to count on them. And, in reciprocation, they you.

New Music Alert: Marsha Ambrosius

Readers, Readers, Readers! Now you all know how much I LOVE GREAT singing and a GREAT voice, well one of my favorite voices is back on the scene. You all may remember her as the Songstress from the group Floetry; well "The Songstress" is out for the first time on her own and her name is MARSHA AMBROSIUS! Ms.Marsha's breakout single is titled Hope She Cheats On You.

The title alone makes you take a step back, but when you hear the song (the lyrical content)I guarantee you will say DAAAAAAAAAMN! It's a song anyone who has gone through a breakup can relate to. Take a listen; a goooooood listen and see for yourself. Marsha's debut CD is scheduled to be released on October 26th.

Dr. Malinda Sapp Loses Battle to Colon Cancer

I'd like to extend my condolences to Pastor Marvin Sapp and family on the loss of his wife Dr.Malinda Sapp who passed away this morning from a long battle with colon cancer. Marvin Sapp is a world re known Pastor and gospel artist. Malinda was a minister and licenced psychologist in her own right. They were married for 18 years and have three children.