2.08.2010
Infidelity: Who's To Blame?
A few years ago, a friend of mine who was single at the time said " If any man gay or straight says that he is faithful, then that man is a liar!" We debated about this for several hours. I said that's not true because I'm a man and I know how to be faithful, I'm not afraid of commitment. He found another man to side with him and his response was, "We (men) are born to cheat! Look at the lions,they have numerous mates..." I said it then, and I say it now, that is a load of bullsh*t!
The reality is, it's about self control; No matter if you're single, just dating, or married, you're going to see someone you consider attractive. That does NOT mean you have to sleep with them.Even though infidelity has been around since the beginning of time, it seems now it's at an all time high.
Now here's a question, say your mate/spouse cheats and has a child with the person, how would you handle it? would you take it out on the other person, your mate or the innocent child? Well I hope none of my readers aren't anything like Kisha Jones from Brooklyn,NY. Jones a scorned 38 year old woman who took revenge to twisted levels beyond words, found out her husband was having an affair with a 25 year old woman who was also was seven months pregnant.
Jones then played detective, got the woman's name (Mo'Nique Hunter),used a stolen prescription pad to prescribe cytotec also known as the abortion pill. She then (allegedly) used a spoof calling website and posed as someone from Ms.Hunter's doctor's office tell her the drug would prevent the baby being born with down syndrome. Ms.Hunter took the drug and went into premature labor. The baby still in intensive care, survived in spite of and that didn't sit well with Mrs.Jones.She then sent a man into the hospital who was to deliver breast milk from the mother. The hospital being leery, tested the white liquid and found out it was a toxic substance. The man has yet to be identified, but Jones is now charged with attempted abortion, assault, reckless endangerment, forgery and criminal impersonation.
And for what? all because her husband was cheating. Why should she go after an innocent child? or in my opinion Mo'Nique Hunter? Her relationship/marriage is with her husband (Anthony Jones). Now because she was blinded by fury and rage, her freedom is being taken away and rightfully so. Now readers, let's talk about this, Do you confront the other person or your mate if infidelity takes place? Let's Dish and talk about it!
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Oh-freaking-wow! Now I will be the first to admit that I am the crazy type and would seriously hurt anyone who "wrecklessly" cheat on me. The key word is "wrecklessly." Its one thing to say you don't want to be with me anymore and it ends right there, but it's another thing to secretly have children on me, bring that person into our home, etc. That's when I reach in to my closet and look for my Ninja knives and poisonous darts. I will hurt someone about playing with me feelings. That said, that Kisha-Bytch is psycho! I would NEVER-EVER do harm to an innocent child - EVER! There is NO justification for it. So, damn what you go your feelings hurt - beat up the person who cheated on you - punch a punching bag - go scream on a beach where no one can hear you. I think they need to shove her silly-azz under the jail and leave her there until she gets a clue.
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