2.17.2010

What is A Man?


Okay...So last week I had a conversation with one of my straight male friends. He asked the question, "How can a homosexual male, consider himself a man when he performs sexual acts in the same manner as a woman would in the bedroom?"

I responded that ones sexuality doesn't make him a "man" What goes on in a bedroom does NOT emasculate a man. I believe a man is one who handles his responsibilities, provides for himself and his household. How many women a man is sexing does not make him a man in my opinion!

What about the man with several kids, several baby mamas, no job, no house or apartment to call his own; he's at home with his mama or laying up on some woman who's just happy to have a man in her house so she allows him to free load.
Is that what a man is? So I'm asking you all to weigh in on this topic PLEASE!!!
What is a man?


3 comments:

  1. Kire, you're friend is ignorant and that's all I will say about that. I'm sick and tired of debating about something as simple as this... If he wants to think that being a man is predicated on sexuality then he choses - very wrecklessly may I add - to think like that. I can't pardon the dumb shyt anymore. I'm sick of it!

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  2. Marcel I have been thrown under the bus,even though, under no circumstances,do Mr Sean Allen back down from any statements,I have made or that,I will make on this blog,let me get you straight, me and kire have been friends six years,I AM NOT A GAY BASHER.I and Mister Kire we debate about everything u are absolute right with your statement but at the end the day there are men like your president who u guys think is the perfect black man, and he does not look at u as a man,cause of the acts u perform,me and kire did a exsperiment we ask three women that we knew could u respect a man who had sex with a man, but he had a change of heart and went back to women, they said they respected ther gay friend,but the would not date a guy that started back dating women,I say this to say MARCEL!!! That your female buddies cant respect u if they cant respect or date the next guy that was just like u brother,how can u respect one and not the other.

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  3. MR Marcel me and kire will have debates twice a week about all types of subjects, hope to here from u Brother!!! YOUR GOOD BUDDY MR SEAN ALLEN

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